Friday, 23 May 2008

How To Give Head: The Mechanics To Giving Great Head: Part 2

So you’re ready to give your man the best time of his life, but before you run in head first (no pun intended) and make a blunder, let me just explain the basics of how to give a blowjob so that you can at least satisfy your man. Believe it or not it’s really not that hard, yet time and time again it gets done badly, really badly.

This may sound rather shallow, but I’ve known guys who break-up with their girlfriends because they’re rubbish at giving head. Trust me, a man will do anything for you if you can give amazing, earth-shattering head. Just watch. After this tutorial you’ll know the basics of how to give head, but this is really just the beginning.

Ok, so lets get down to business. Your man’s penis is a rather sensitive creature, you can easily sexually arouse your partner just by gently stroking and caressing his penis, but that alone won’t make him come. It’s always best to start a little slow to warm him up (unless his manhood is already firm). There are lots of ways to make your man get a hard-on, but we’ll delve into more of that later in part 3.

If you’re man’s penis is a little soft, just start slow by caressing and stroking his penis from the base to the tip. You can also try kissing his penis and licking it up and down the shaft with your tongue. Just lick from the base up to the tip and back down a few times. When he’s a harder, you might want to be a little firmer with your touch.

You don’t want to squeeze the life of the little guy, so be careful. Stroke his penis up and down with your free hand and start licking the shaft and tip of the penis. If he has a foreskin, gently ease this down and roll your tongue around the tip and ridge of the penis. At the same time you can stroke his penis up and down with your free hand.

He should be pretty hard right now, so it’s time to turn up the heat. Now, there are a few common blunders that women make which I’d like to share with you when giving head. Firstly, they don’t add variety, simply going up and down on your man’s penis the whole time, isn’t very exciting.

Secondly, pressure is a big factor, suck too soft and you’ll lose him, suck too hard and he’ll be in pain. Don’t get me wrong, some guys like to have their penis’s sucked really hard. It’s really down to preference, but the amount of pressure you apply is important.

You want to get your lips around the head of his penis and begin going up and down. Think of a penis entering a woman’s vagina, you basically want to mimic the same action. A little saliva helps, so perhaps it’s a good idea to have a quick sip of water before you start.

Now, you want to suck his penis with a little more pressure, working up and down, making sure that your lips make contact with the ridge of the penis when you come up (this is one of the most sensitive parts of the penis).


It’s not necessary to stroke his penis with your hand, but it’s great for adding variety. Combining a hand-job and blowjob is a great sensation. Experiment and play around, you’ll know if he likes it.

Use lots of tongue, this is one of your most powerful tools you can use to deliver the most mind-blowing head. When you’ve got your lips wrapped around his penis, swish your tongue around the ridge of his penis, lick the back and front, be a little spontaneous, this will drive him wild.

Variety is key, so switch your technique, but avoid changing your technique too much when you’ve got a great thing going. Believe me, you will know when a guy likes it. Guys rarely fake moans or orgasms. So pay attention to this.

More on observation later, but for now, it’s important to add a little variety to keep things exciting, after all you don’t want to be whipping a dead horse for an hour and still not make him come.

Once you’re on a roll, don’t stop. Really, this is a big mood killer; stopping mid-way when he’s fully aroused and sexually fired up is a big no-no. Always keep something going.

Use your lips, your tongue, and your hands. Break up the routine a little by licking up and down his shaft (back and front), roll your tongue around the ridge of his penis a few times, lick the tip, change the suction pressure, go deep and as far as you feel comfortable without gagging, rub your lips all over his penis, but always return to the ridge and tip.

When his penis is fully lubed with you saliva, you will be able to stroke his penis very easily. Stroke his penis right to the tip and then stroke it back down, adding a corkscrew action will have your man gagging for more.

Spontaneity is good, really good, but always return to the head of the penis, sucking it from the tip to as far as you feel comfortable. Feel free to lick, suck or stroke his balls, as some guys really enjoy this, but the main focus is always the head of the penis as this is the most sensitive part.

In the next tutorial I’ll explain what to do when a man comes and how to turn you into his ultimate fantasy, so that he’ll be on his knees begging for more.