There’s no better person to tell you how to give head than an average guy like me who just loves getting head. Of course, every guy loves getting head, but take it from me, there is plain boring head and then there’s earth shattering, pure ecstasy head.
The problem is, most guys feel too embarrassed to tell their partners how they really like getting head, which means you could be giving the worst head your man has ever experienced. Believe me, receiving boring head is about as much fun as train-spotting (no offence to train spotters).
A bad blowjob can be a real mood killer and turn your night of fun into a night you’d both rather forget. What’s more you’ll be down there a long time since he’s not sexually excited (more on that later). If a man went down on you and just lapped away without a clue as to what he was doing, you’d probably be bored out of your wits too. Anyway, you get the picture.
It’s true that a lot of men are terrible when it comes to going down on a woman, but believe it or not there is an art-form and a little science to giving great head too. I personally am a genius when it comes to cunnilingus, and I don’t know why men struggle with the task of giving a woman an orgasm this way.
You might be thinking there’s not a lot to work out, but believe me there is. Most of it’s just down to practice and observation, but a lot of it has to do with preparation. You have to remember that the penis your sucking is attached to your man, by that I mean you should be giving him attention up there too, to really blow his socks off.
You don’t simply go down on him and suck away, you have to make a mental connection as well as a physical one. But before we get into the psychological aspect of how to give great head, we must learn to walk before we can run. So check out part 2 of this blowjob tutorial in the next post.